If your potty training journey isn’t going like the internet said it would, you’re not alone — not even a little. The truth is, real-life potty training rarely looks like a smooth, one-and-done milestone. It’s usually messy, inconsistent, and full of curveballs — especially with toddlers, who are still figuring out their bodies, their routines, and their emotions. 

This stage is just as much about emotional readiness and patience as it is about bladder control. So if it feels like you’re going in circles, know that’s not failure — it’s part of the process.

Potty Training Isn’t Always Perfect — And That’s Okay

Picture this, your toddler nailed potty training in one week, is proudly running to the potty and staying dry all day… and then suddenly decides the bathroom is the worst place on earth. - Sound Relatable?

Maybe the accidents are piling up, the frustration is building, and you're wondering if it’s too soon — or if you missed your window. Or maybe you’ve already started and stopped again, and each attempt leaves you second-guessing yourself a little more.

Here’s the truth: setbacks are completely normal! In this blog, we’re breaking down the why behind the setbacks and offer simple, stress-saving ways to keep moving forward — even if things feel a little messy right now (literally and emotionally).

Why Potty Training Setbacks Happen

Regression is real. You thought you were in the clear — the potty was being used, the accidents were fewer, and you were this close to packing up the last of the diapers. Then suddenly… your toddler starts having accidents again. Even if you started out strong, it’s common to hit roadblocks.

Some of the most common causes include:

• Developmental changes – your child might be learning other big skills (like talking or climbing), and potty training takes a back seat

• Stress or big transitions – like a new sibling, daycare change, travel, or illness

• Too much pressure – toddlers can dig in hard if they feel forced or judged

• They’re just...not quite ready yet – and that’s okay!

 Don’t panic. Regression doesn’t mean failure. It’s just feedback.

Potty training isn’t linear — and progress doesn’t always mean perfection. But with a little perspective (and maybe a backup pair of diapers and undies in your bag), you can help your child bounce back with confidence.

What You Can Do Instead of Stressing Out

Rather than pushing harder, try these resets that support your child and your sanity:

1. Keep it positive

Even during setbacks, use language like “Let’s try again!” or “Accidents happen — we’re still learning.”

 2. Go back to basics

If underwear isn’t working right now, it’s okay to go back to diapers or training pants temporarily.

3. Offer frequent, low-pressure potty breaks

Set a gentle reminder timer or use potty books/videos to bring back interest.

4. Prep for nap and nighttime accidents

This is a big one: regressions often show up during sleep. Having a waterproof mattress pad already in place makes these moments so much easier to deal with.

Nora’s Nursery Accessories for Potty Training Success

1. Waterproof Mattress Pads (coming soon...) 

Your #1 MVP for night training. Accidents happen, and our soft, breathable, machine-washable mattress pads help protect the bed and save your sanity.
→ Perfect for naps, nighttime, or sick days when you're on high alert.

Why a Waterproof Mattress Pad Is a Stress-Lowering Lifesaver

When potty training feels unpredictable, small wins matter — like not having to strip an entire bed at 2am.

Our Nora’s Nursery waterproof mattress pads are:

• Machine washable

• Soft and breathable for comfy sleep

• A barrier between you and a total bedding overhaul

Whether your child’s potty trained during the day or just starting out, it’s peace of mind in one easy layer.

2. Wet Bags

Mess containment = peace of mind. Our Waterproof Wet Bags are ideal for stashing soiled undies or clothing during outings.
→ Bonus: Use one compartment for clean backup clothes and one for anything wet.

3. Diaper Covers

Our Diaper Covers or AWJ Pocket Diapers can double as reusable training pants when paired with a  insert or liner. They’re trim, easy to pull up/down (or snap), and still give you peace of mind if accidents happen.
→ Great for at-home practice or nap-time protection.

4. Reusable Cotton Wipes

Just because you're ditching diapers doesn't mean the messes stop. Our soft cloth wipes are perfect for wiping little bums, cleaning up potty spills, or even sticky hands.

See more about the benefits of choosing natural reusable cloth baby wipes for your little one, why they are the best option for sensitive skin, how you can make your own homemade wipes solution and where to store them. 

5. Travel Pod / Diaper Pod

With one large zipper opening, our Waterproof Diaper Pods have enough space to hold up to 7-8 pocket diapers or cover diapers with inserts. Handle comes with a detachable snap to be able to attach the pod as needed.

→Keep everything organized and compact for daycare, grandparents’ houses, or on-the-go potty practice.
→ Use it to store underwear, extra outfits, or mini potty essentials.

6. Cloth Liners (Optional)

If you’re in the transition phase but still using inserts or covers, cloth liners can help with easy cleanup and a dry-feel surface — especially helpful for sensitive toddlers.

When to Pause and Try Again Later

Sometimes the best decision is to take a break. If your child is:

• Crying or panicking about using the potty

• Holding in pee or poop

• Having multiple daily accidents after several weeks

…it might be time to pause. Revisit potty training in a few weeks when things feel calmer.

Remember: it’s not quitting — it’s resetting.

Final Thoughts: You’re Doing Better Than You Think

There’s no such thing as “perfect” potty training. It’s messy, emotional, and unpredictable — and that’s true for almost every parent. You’re showing up, trying again, and learning alongside your child. That’s what counts.

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